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引用 【转载】一个有修养的人,必须做到的十点   

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一:多说鼓励别人的好话。

二:不说伤害他人自尊的话和不做伤害别人自尊的事,不恶语伤人。

三:不讽刺人,不嘲笑人,不挖苦人,不打击人,不随意指责人。

四:赞美他人的优点和长处,不提及他人的缺点和短处。

五:善于发现别人积极地一面。

六:尊重你身边的每一个人,尊重别人等于尊重你自己。

七:不歧视他人,不蔑视他人,即使对方是一个乞丐。

八:信任别人,不要随便怀疑别人。

九:热情的对待别人而不是冷漠。

十:同情别人,当别人发生不幸或有困难需要帮助时要施以援手,而不是幸灾乐祸。
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